It’s very hard to find one good one in a barrel of bad ones.
You both need to decide if this relationship is worth pursuing.
It’s not realistic to totally avoid political discussions.
As a mother of three daughters myself, trust me, I understand your concern.
You are smart not to speak ill of black men or demand she not date them, because teenagers take a lot of pleasure in driving their parents nuts dating people their parents forbid them to.
Even my oldest daughter, who is not his biologically, often calls him first to get advice, and that really makes me smile. They’re learning what a good man is by living with one full time and seeing what a healthy, functional, loving relationship looks like in real time.