Truthfully, like any relationship, you cannot help whom you love.
If you have the same interests, enjoy spending time together, and can see a real future with someone, you will love them without even thinking about their race.
Source: Shutter Stock A lot of dudes are just naturally flirty, even with girls they don't have a crush on.
Source: Shutter Stock Speaking of favors: does he go out of his way for those favors?
Like, if you asked him to come pick you up an hour away in the middle of the night, would he wake up and do it? If he cancels plans to hang with you, doesn't do things he likes because you don't like them or goes out of his way to make you happy, that's a sign that he likes you as more than just a friend.
Though I date smart enough humans to not ever be asked to be the voice of my entire race, I still get asked how I feel about rappers using the N-word, and who has access to it.
This conversation doesn't have to be uncomfortable if you're certain of your stance, but if you waiver, they will be forever confused and your weighing-in on the subject can save them from physical harm and embarrassment in the future.3.
Growing up in Northern Kentucky, I got used to being the only Black kid in most of my classes.