Without a shared history or mutual friends, the people feel interchangeable." Jeff N., 55, says that he has slowly warmed up to online dating: "I used to be very shy about it and still don't feel entirely comfortable.
Create a fun alias, it’s much more fun and creative than using your real name anyway.
Another important part of building your personal profile on Ok Cupid is putting interesting information about yourself in your profile to try and attract that special someone.
As much as you might want to list specifics such as where you went to school, where you work, etc, don’t do it.
The reason: someone could aggregate this information with other information they find on the Internet to find you in the real world. Instead of listing what college you went to, just say “went to school in the dirty south”.
(Consider the fake Nigerian prince email scams so many of us have received.) Listen to the experts. " says Julie Spira, a leading online dating expert, bestselling author of , and creator of profiles for singles via Cyber Dating